The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Post 2
The next section of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People the author wrote about effective habits. He believes effective habits are made up of, knowledge (what to, why to), skill (how to), desire (want to). An effective habits has one of those three. The book then goes on to talk about Maturity Continuum. Which the author explains as going from dependence to independence to interdependence. This makes sense, as an infant people are completely dependent on a caring figure. Usually a mother, then as kids grow up they become less and less dependent and struggle with their parents to find the right balance of independence. While some parents may feel their child still needs to be dependent. As people move through life they become more interdependent. Interdependent is understanding people need others to live. We can do it, we can put all our talents together and accomplish something is an interdependent idea. I believe the earliest kids see interdependent ideas work are often with athletics or in theatrical productions. I personally found it most in athletics, I also found that the more everyone buys into the interdependent ideas of the whole is greater than the some of its parts, the better the whole could be. An interdependent idea is to first seek to understand before seeking to be understood. A independent idea is a private victory, putting first things firsts. I see baseball as a sport with many independent victories lead to a greater, interdependent victory. Each at bat is an independent competition between the pitcher and the hitter. The team to win more of those independent battles usually wins the game, as a team, an interdependent idea. I find this book to be very interesting and spark many self reflecting questions for myself. I am starting to try some of the effective habits the book mentions.